Friends

Lets not define the term "friendship". It bears its own definition depending on the individual and the context. But one thing for sure, irrespecitve of the individual opinion everybody will agree to the point its Sweet. It gives more than it demand. This relation is not a blood relation yet more than that. I sometime wonder about the person who invented the term 'Friends', i mean define the relationship in a sweet word. Why at all we have friends or we make it? If i think again and again on it i feel this might be the reason "as we are spending lot of our time outside be it school, work or anything for that matter, we meet more with non-family member on day-to-day basis for a substantial amount of time". It is such a relation you dont need a cerificate, dont need to solemnise as friends yet it happens.

They say if u have one real friend in your life assume it as a accomplished life. I don't know how to differentiate between a normal friend, true friend, real friend. But i know they are there when i need them, they are there when i want to laugh with them and they are there when i am at my lowest point as well. They dont say it. There silence does the speaking. So lets drop the adjective before it, it's just FRIEND. I have few of them, definitely more than one, and in true sense i can say its a pleasing experience. Even though Chanakya says there is no friendship without self interest, its absolutely fine for friends. They don't mind being used and vice versa.

I thought i could write so many things here, but when i think about them i travel back to the past, recollecting the wonderful time i have spent with them, and my finger stops moving on the keyboard. Few lines almost took a week but even then i hardly written anything about them. So lets not write any specific name or event those were engraved in bold in the brain cell, just thanking them to be part of my life, making it a complete one. I wish i could tell each of them what i feel about them, how much i love them. Words and distance both are playing the spoil sports.

But one secret, i enjoyed writing this article a lot as dont remember how many times i went to flashback. This one helped me in blowing the dust layer over certain incidents those i have almost forgotten.

Love you all.
Happy Belated F'ship day.